There is a fine line between admiring and having a certain interest in "the better things in life" and obsession, covetousness, and resenting others what they can afford & indulge. It is foolish and frustrating to obsess about what we can't have but it is healthy to admire them rather than suppress our interest.
If you have no interest in equipment, only music, then why come here? There are sites devoted to the latter to the exclusion of the former. (Personally I often visit the
GMG Classical Music Forum, for instance; there there are people with high-end equipment but others quite content with mass-consumer compact systems.)
I flatter myself that I maintain a certain balance between music lover and audiophile. Also, a certain balance between the very modest equipment I can afford and the high-end equipment that is cutting-edge, SOTA, and far more expensive than I will ever afford but some of whose features might eventually trickle down.