Jax,
I lost my Dad 21 years ago, he was only 70.
A couple of months before he died, he was on Maui,and he and I played a skins game against two of my golfing buddies.
His short game and putting helped us win the match.
He was never one to tell you how much he loved you, but when I dropped him and my Mom off at Kahului Airport for the trip back to NJ, he put his arms around me and said, "may the good Lord take a liken to you."
E Hoomau Maua Kealoha