Why I couldn't listen to the Wilsons

Haha great thread!! My life never really requires me to dress nice. Except the rare occasion.
I dress extra crappy when I go audio shopping at new stores.
Just like car shopping.
I was in an Audi dealer once getting my car serviced. So I walked around to the front in my work clothes was checking out the new s6 that had just come out at that time . 4 salespeople sitting at their desks not one of them even looked at me. For like 1/2 hour. Finally I asked a guy what colors he had in stock. He said "just that one" with an attitude like I should have known all the Audi dealers were only getting one s6 each at the time. Which I did know , but he didn't k ow that.
Then He continued to ignore my presence. The service guy came out and said your car is ready. The guy finally looked up and said what are you getting serviced. I said s4.
Suddenly he was my best friend telling me all about the s6. Then he asked where I bought my car. When I told him it was the next dealer down from him. He said why do come all the way here for servicing. I said because this is closer to my house.
He said , well why didn't you buy your car from us ? I said because I was treated rudely last time I was here. Without skipping a beat he said so you want to test drive the s6.
I said no I can't I just ordered an rs4 from the other dealer. Then I left.
Ha !!!! I always loved that day
 
Dealers are one thing. They can easily be dismissed if they treat you wrong. Oh some of the stories I could tell...

But what irks me the most are when the manufacturers present themselves in such a way that resembles some of these dealer horror stories... and it only costs them - I can always use/recommend/design a different system for a client (or myself) that will still completely satisfy, but you aren't getting our money!
 
I am pretty sure I talked to the same guy from LMC when I was at the Barrett Jackson collector car auction in Phoenix in last January. They had a Mcintosh display there with the 2kw amps and I was looking and he talked to me for while and told me to visit his store sometime so I did later that week. Since I was only 23 he could have just ignored me like some dealers do. I would defiantly like to go back there again.
It seems as though there are far too many B&M dealers like that. Growing up in Toronto, I was lucky to have a number of high end audio shops around, with great service and plenty of selection.

Locally here in Florida, there is a dealer in the Tampa area who could have made a pretty penny off me over the years, but despite my efforts (and even some purchases including two pairs of speakers), his arrogance costs him. I'm certainly not alone, as several in my local audiophile society have expressed the same discontent. It has been interesting to watch him abandon two channel in favor of Home Theater, only to realize HT is struggling even worse than 2 channel. He now carries low end 2 channel stuff and a hodge podge of HT stuff. Now he's moving heavy into "life style" stuff. Whatever that is.

10 years ago, I drooled over his two channel gear, today, what he carries, wouldn't be of any interest to me. The last time in his store, I quietly walked around, didn't say too much and probably by the way I was dressed (casual shorts and a T-shirt), it was near impossible to get anyone to help me. I ended up getting one of the young sales people (after waiting for 10 minutes at "reception"). It was interesting how he went about things, making incorrect assumptions, left, right and center. When I asked to hear a particular pair of speakers, the young sales rep became head of the audio inquisition. Grilling me on budget, sources, amps, preamps. I didn't want to disclose that information, but he was almost insistent before be would give me a demo. I finally got a half ass demo of these particular speakers. He couldn't be bothered to switch anything around, so he drove them with a low level 5 channel amp, a moderate level preamp and an ipod! I guess he thought I wouldn't know the difference or that I was too stupid to realize it.

Contrast that with LMC Home Entertainment in Phoenix who I visited several times during my trip last month. The owner quickly gauged I was a two channel guy and steered me away from his HT section. I could tell, he shared the enthusiasm, the passion, and didn't give two hoots about selling something to me (which in turn is probably why his dealership is one of the tops in the entire country!). He offered me a soda, and talked to me like I was his long lost audiophile buddy. In fact, by the way he was talking, I was racking my brain trying to figure out if I had met him before, been in his store before....or what? Nope. He was just excited to show me things. He would say things like, "oh, I just hooked up the new Burnester music server to the Futuras, you have to hear it!" OK, I thought, I'm in! He truly understood that people like to buy, they don't like being sold to. I thoroughly enjoyed the experience of a great two channel B&M store - again.
 
Petro,

I decided to traded my five year Lexus in for a 4WD car and went into the Infinity showroom. You know, it could be the way I dressed but EVERYONE in the showroom was dressed that way. I must look poor.

For 30 minutes I tried to get a salesperson and couldn’t. Finally I guy comes over while I am sitting in a car (wanting me out I think) and asks me a few questions, and I tell him that I wanted to trade in my Lexus. Then his ears pop up……

That’ not the end. It was 2010 and he told me that all the 2010 cars were sold, I HAD to buy a 2009, which I was not interested in. That conversation took 15 minutes and I left.

Two weeks late I got a follow up phone call from customer support asking how did it go. I told them the story and she said, “Why didn’t you look at the 2011s we have a ton of those! He NEVER told menext years models were out! I then told them I had bought a Lexus .

Well, I got the salesperson in trouble and he called me and said that there was no reason for me to have told customer support all that!

Yeah, it was my fault.
 
A little off topic, but next time you guys need a car and are interested in an Audi, ping me. My dealer will give you a sweet deal.;) Gave my friend the best price on an S6 when they first came out!:woot:
 
This thread reminds me of the generation that wears their jeans half mast showing their intellect for all & the building trade to see, food for thought Forrest!
 
This is a good thread, dealers and manufacturers should take notice... That being said, in my experience, most dealers I interact with these days are very customer oriented and willing to educate as well as audition. (Definitive is a great organization, and there are many others) There are always going to be sales people that really shouldn't be representing an organization and or a product. I have seen the bad behavior in action over the last 30 years, and personally find it offensive at the highest level. This is a fun business, people like to share, and we get to listen to all kinds of music and exchange ideas. I also believe that the best system should be played for everyone to enjoy whether it be a customer for a pair of headphones or one buying a high performance audio system. It can be an amazing experience and creates good will. I always welcome interaction even if it has nothing to do with products I am associated with. It is much more helpful to direct the passion toward inclusion as opposed to exclusion; this is a major reason why growth is slow in the high performance audio arena. Many dealers do it right, but they don’t have it easy either. They often have a sizable investment in the products they represent. Some customers audition for hours and hours, learn, interact and then buy the product elsewhere. It happens a lot more often than you would expect. The retail environment has changed a whole lot over the last 30 years, there are so very few brick and mortar stores left to audition products period let alone audio stores. This particular industry we enjoy so much requires personal setup and instruction as there are so many variables, this is where the dealer can shine and be your best ally in choosing and installing the right products for your listening environment and tastes. Manufacturers should be supportive of the industry as a whole and help dealers and end users in any way they can. Some just take themselves way too seriously and are rude and condescending. No place for that noise, they aren’t curing cancer and even if they were it doesn’t warrant the behavior sometimes displayed. Just my 2 cents as I step carefully off of my soap box :D Enjoy The Holiday…
 
Bret,

Welcome to the forum. Thank you for joining. I confess to not hearing your gear but I have and love your dad's. It's wonderful.

Bret, welcome to AS!:hi: Hope to hear your gear one day!
 
Bret... Hello & Welcome to AudioShark!!!

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Welcome, Bret, it’s great to have you aboard. I am new myself, here about a week.

Bret, may not remember me, but I have bought ten items from a former company of yours and your dad. The pair were terrific and they personally helped me out a few times. I have emails from Bret and he answered a lot of my questions. I’ve spoken on the phone with him, but not all execs are like that. So I had no hesitation of getting products from him.

I don’t want to make Bret uncomfortable at all, but when he left that company it also lost its presence on Long Island and I cannot go to a showroom, nearby, and listen to one of their products.

Bret is also right in many of the points he brings up. But let me say it a different ways. My first car was a Dodge Dart, which cost $2,832. But I knew about Cadillacs and Mercedes. You noticed them when you drove! Boy, I wanted one! So I worked hard all my life.

Well, High End gear is not so obvious; dealers need to introduce their clients to better gear. Have it on display. As I mentioned, if I came in to buy something else, and see this, and it’s not a problem, let me enjoy the moment. Look, how many Toyota buyers moved up from their first care, A Corolla, to a Camry and then began to look at the Lexus?

My friend owned a Camera story a couple of decades ago. Customers would come it and spend an hour there going over a camera and not buy it. Then they’d go down to Lower Manhattan at get it for $20 less. Amazon and the internet has made that easier these days, so I understand a dealers frustration.

I hope Bret could give us some insight of what it is like to deal with consumers from his point of view. That will be interesting and educational.

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I also wanted to remind folks, after reading a comment here, that I wrote “ When you tell a bunch of bad stories all at once it sounds like you had nothing but bad luck, but my stories are spread out over a couple of decades.”

I have had some great experiences with dealers and manufacturers, sadly many are gone now. But If I wrote, and this has happened, “I went into a dealer and listened to speakers. I liked them and bought them and love them.” It’s nothing to write about. That happens a lot.

For example, a month ago, I called VPI for a part for my turntable, but I didn’t know the name, but described it to them.. I got it two days later.

I went to my dealer, ordered the Oppo and got it. It’s great. Nothing to write about.
My dealer suggested that I get the Sonos because I get rotten FM reception. He installed it, I LOVE IT. Nothing to write about.
 
I have a few stories I’d love to tell also. When you tell a bunch of bad stories all at once it sounds like you had nothing but bad luck, but my stories are spread out over a couple of decades.

For example, I went with friend, nearly 20 years ago to by a Sony CD Player for him in Westchester NY> Once in the store I saw they had the Wilson Audio Music Monoliths that sold for $150,000. They were listening to it in a glass enclosed room.

I asked if while I was there if I could listen to those speakers. The dealer then said he had just gotten in the Krell CD player, $11,000, wouldn’t we want that instead of the $500 Sony. My friend said no, and we asked to listen to the Sony.

After listening to it, he went over to buy it. I asked the dealer again if I can listen to the speakers. He then said “Are you buying the Krell or the Sony.” My friend said “The Sony.” He then said, “Then you can’t listen to the speakers.”

I nudged my friend at we left without buying anything. I want to shop at stores that actually make me feel that they want me there!

To this day I refer to this incident as “The Silence of the Wamms.”

(Hey, I am just:wacko: trying to get my 10 posts in so I can put up pictures)

Wow, I had a similar incident back in the early 70's. I was in NYC at a High End audio store. I was dress in casual clothing , sneakers and had long hair at the time. I wanted to Buy a NEW turntable and was looking around the store. After about 15 minutes no one had asked if I wanted any help. I had just come from the bank and had a pocket full of cash so I took it out and waved it high so the salesman could see,then asked if someone could help me, they ran to me like children wanting candy. I left and went to another less noted audio store a few doors down. Bought a New Dual 1219 with Pickering cartridge.
Thanks,
John. ;)
 
Thank you for the kind comments! No discomfort whatsoever. Overall, I enjoyed the time at Krell, as it was a cornerstone to the better part of my audio industry education. Even though the latter course of events was unpleasant, it has awarded me a freedom I might not have exercised if I were still there.

I would be happy to share some of my insights in regard to consumers. I enjoy the customer interaction the most out of all the things I do. It is during these conversations where you really understand what is happening in the industry and where you fit in. Common threads emerge during these Q&A sessions and much is to be learned. I think the industry has done a poor job overall in educating and cultivating its customer base. Manufacturers, for the most part, are to blame as we collectively have done a poor job of conveying the message our respective companies are trying to send. The thing that makes our industry unique is that besides the overwhelming personal bias and taste, there is not a set of comparable specifications that adequately allow comparison. Distortion, Signal to noise, slew rate, power, damping factor etc… do virtually nothing to help understand how a product will integrate in your home environment. It may serve as a guide post for a more technical observer to get a peek into how a product is designed, but by no means does it translate to what you will hear. As an example, some of the questions I get at BSC are:

A. Who are you? And are you related to Dan D’Agostino? J
B. 60 or 100 watts isn’t going to be enough power for my system, right?
C. Is it true Dan D’Agostino sleeps in an oxygen chamber and has an “ID Monster” in his back yard? (I’m kidding of course about the oxygen chamber)

Now based on current market trends, it would appear as though 60, 100, 200 watts may not be nearly enough power in a market filled with 300, 600, 1K watt amplifiers. In some cases, this would be true, but all kidding aside, my 60 Watt amplifier gets the better of amps rated at several times its power. And — not to use this as a primer to sell BSC products — but this is where the education process can begin. This process is further confounded and turned into a proverbial “minefield” when mixing in variables like changing a power cord and having it affect the sound or comparing digital to analog sources, and makes it harder to educate the general public.

Automobiles are often used as a comparison when discussing audio equipment. So, why are amplifier power ratings not the same as horsepower ratings? Well, in essence they are, but interpreted much differently. If you have ever driven a 600hp car you understand how horsepower translates to the experience. Even at low speed, it responds a whole lot differently than a 100hp car. To muddy the waters a bit, if you compare a 600hp naturally aspirated car with a 600hp turbo charged car they respond differently, but at the track the end result can be conclusively measured on the time slip and all things being equal they should have similar track times. In audio, we have the same variables and different ways to achieve performance, but no conclusive performance indicator besides our ears. Ears are a powerful tool, but alas everyone hears things differently and preference is the most important factor. Another auto analogy pertains to build quality. Some cars, when you close the door, it sounds like a tin can and others, it sounds like a vault. I am always a sucker for that vault like sound when a car door is closed… In audio, some customers oppose expensive cosmetics and a higher quality fit and finish, regarding it as an unnecessary expense. For some, this will be true, but for most it rounds out the pride of the ownership experience and provides value in a sea of poorly manufactured products.

As a manufacturer, I hope to get a potential customers attention and desire to ask you questions. And if you are honest and objective, they will continue for years to seek your educated opinions and hopefully ask those same questions to other reputable manufacturers, and maybe even buy one of my products. Ultimately, the snake oil salesman gets ousted, and the customer hopefully feels good about their purchasing decisions. A good dealer can be a great asset in sifting through all the data, but they, also being customers of the manufacturer, have to be armed with the right education to provide service to the broader customer base.

I apologize for this lengthy response and I hope it didn’t go too far astray and answered a question or two. In a nutshell, the audio industry has to first work together to educate the public with strong fundamentals, without the use of superstition and wizardry, before it can provide insight into the more subtle refinements such as cables, power cords, etc. Having all of these opposing views, and none qualified assessments marketed as fact, is just confusing — even for a seasoned veteran.

Welcome, Bret, it’s great to have you aboard. I am new myself, here about a week.

Bret, may not remember me, but I have bought ten items from a former company of yours and your dad. The pair were terrific and they personally helped me out a few times. I have emails from Bret and he answered a lot of my questions. I’ve spoken on the phone with him, but not all execs are like that. So I had no hesitation of getting products from him.

I don’t want to make Bret uncomfortable at all, but when he left that company it also lost its presence on Long Island and I cannot go to a showroom, nearby, and listen to one of their products.

Bret is also right in many of the points he brings up. But let me say it a different ways. My first car was a Dodge Dart, which cost $2,832. But I knew about Cadillacs and Mercedes. You noticed them when you drove! Boy, I wanted one! So I worked hard all my life.

Well, High End gear is not so obvious; dealers need to introduce their clients to better gear. Have it on display. As I mentioned, if I came in to buy something else, and see this, and it’s not a problem, let me enjoy the moment. Look, how many Toyota buyers moved up from their first care, A Corolla, to a Camry and then began to look at the Lexus?

My friend owned a Camera story a couple of decades ago. Customers would come it and spend an hour there going over a camera and not buy it. Then they’d go down to Lower Manhattan at get it for $20 less. Amazon and the internet has made that easier these days, so I understand a dealers frustration.

I hope Bret could give us some insight of what it is like to deal with consumers from his point of view. That will be interesting and educational.

************************************
I also wanted to remind folks, after reading a comment here, that I wrote “ When you tell a bunch of bad stories all at once it sounds like you had nothing but bad luck, but my stories are spread out over a couple of decades.”

I have had some great experiences with dealers and manufacturers, sadly many are gone now. But If I wrote, and this has happened, “I went into a dealer and listened to speakers. I liked them and bought them and love them.” It’s nothing to write about. That happens a lot.

For example, a month ago, I called VPI for a part for my turntable, but I didn’t know the name, but described it to them.. I got it two days later.

I went to my dealer, ordered the Oppo and got it. It’s great. Nothing to write about.
My dealer suggested that I get the Sonos because I get rotten FM reception. He installed it, I LOVE IT. Nothing to write about.
 
Thank you for the kind comments! No discomfort whatsoever. Overall, I enjoyed the time at Krell, as it was a cornerstone to the better part of my audio industry education. Even though the latter course of events was unpleasant, it has awarded me a freedom I might not have exercised if I were still there.

I would be happy to share some of my insights in regard to consumers. I enjoy the customer interaction the most out of all the things I do. It is during these conversations where you really understand what is happening in the industry and where you fit in. Common threads emerge during these Q&A sessions and much is to be learned. I think the industry has done a poor job overall in educating and cultivating its customer base. Manufacturers, for the most part, are to blame as we collectively have done a poor job of conveying the message our respective companies are trying to send. The thing that makes our industry unique is that besides the overwhelming personal bias and taste, there is not a set of comparable specifications that adequately allow comparison. Distortion, Signal to noise, slew rate, power, damping factor etc… do virtually nothing to help understand how a product will integrate in your home environment. It may serve as a guide post for a more technical observer to get a peek into how a product is designed, but by no means does it translate to what you will hear. As an example, some of the questions I get at BSC are:

A. Who are you? And are you related to Dan D’Agostino? J
B. 60 or 100 watts isn’t going to be enough power for my system, right?
C. Is it true Dan D’Agostino sleeps in an oxygen chamber and has an “ID Monster” in his back yard? (I’m kidding of course about the oxygen chamber)

Now based on current market trends, it would appear as though 60, 100, 200 watts may not be nearly enough power in a market filled with 300, 600, 1K watt amplifiers. In some cases, this would be true, but all kidding aside, my 60 Watt amplifier gets the better of amps rated at several times its power. And — not to use this as a primer to sell BSC products — but this is where the education process can begin. This process is further confounded and turned into a proverbial “minefield” when mixing in variables like changing a power cord and having it affect the sound or comparing digital to analog sources, and makes it harder to educate the general public.

Automobiles are often used as a comparison when discussing audio equipment. So, why are amplifier power ratings not the same as horsepower ratings? Well, in essence they are, but interpreted much differently. If you have ever driven a 600hp car you understand how horsepower translates to the experience. Even at low speed, it responds a whole lot differently than a 100hp car. To muddy the waters a bit, if you compare a 600hp naturally aspirated car with a 600hp turbo charged car they respond differently, but at the track the end result can be conclusively measured on the time slip and all things being equal they should have similar track times. In audio, we have the same variables and different ways to achieve performance, but no conclusive performance indicator besides our ears. Ears are a powerful tool, but alas everyone hears things differently and preference is the most important factor. Another auto analogy pertains to build quality. Some cars, when you close the door, it sounds like a tin can and others, it sounds like a vault. I am always a sucker for that vault like sound when a car door is closed… In audio, some customers oppose expensive cosmetics and a higher quality fit and finish, regarding it as an unnecessary expense. For some, this will be true, but for most it rounds out the pride of the ownership experience and provides value in a sea of poorly manufactured products.

As a manufacturer, I hope to get a potential customers attention and desire to ask you questions. And if you are honest and objective, they will continue for years to seek your educated opinions and hopefully ask those same questions to other reputable manufacturers, and maybe even buy one of my products. Ultimately, the snake oil salesman gets ousted, and the customer hopefully feels good about their purchasing decisions. A good dealer can be a great asset in sifting through all the data, but they, also being customers of the manufacturer, have to be armed with the right education to provide service to the broader customer base.

I apologize for this lengthy response and I hope it didn’t go too far astray and answered a question or two. In a nutshell, the audio industry has to first work together to educate the public with strong fundamentals, without the use of superstition and wizardry, before it can provide insight into the more subtle refinements such as cables, power cords, etc. Having all of these opposing views, and none qualified assessments marketed as fact, is just confusing — even for a seasoned veteran.

Welcome to Audioshark.org Bret. Glad you are here.
 
The guys at Definitive are First Class all the way (As most of our dealers are)! It is sad to hear stories like the ones posted here. All customers walking into a high end store should be treated with respect. They did what all dealers try to get people to do everyday - walk through the front door!

I learned at a very young age not to judge people based on their appearance. My dad told me a a scenario of someone dressed in shorts and a tshirt, and they turned out to be a multimillionaire.
Stores should never judge people - especially based on dress.

Deb

Nobody, period, should ever judge others, dressed or naked!

I've been in some audio stores and where salesmen people were ignoring me because of my casual clothes and long hair and my headband.
Same in some discotheques!

Then they see me living in my car, and next time I return, if they recognize me they start giving me respect!
How more f*ck-up than that some people can be!

If money is the thing with them people, they all can go to hell straight! ;)

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* Over the course of many many years I fired all my financial planners/brokers. They were all very nicely dressed with suits, and they were all stealing from me!
 
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