Well, if you saw my system, you would know I'm not a cable denier. I'm what many would call an audiophool. But I think implicit bias is a real thing and I don't think we can will it away anymore than we can control our heart rate by wishing it would change. Nor do I think it makes us "slaves", its just a factor. I think both things can be true at the same time, but that's just my opinion. I think there is plenty of room for good faith differences because at the end of the day, we can all buy what makes us happy. Its an interesting discussion, nothing more.
To me, what is destructive to the hobby is when the debate gets personal and insulting, as it usually does, and it happens on both sides. The ego investment that so many make in audio gear is incredible and one reason that many find the hobby (or hobbyists) to be weird and unwelcoming.