Thanks guys.
For all his cuteness he sure does have his moments though. Yesterday, by the time my wife got home from work I was ready to give him back.
We paused, took a breath, reevaluated our tactics/methods/role and have hopefully turned a corner in the whole humans-as-leader relationship.
I forgot how challenging (and constant) the whole raising a puppy thing is....if you want to end up with a good, content and happy doggie in the end.