I'm a part of the young generation that people are referring to. I think that I played my first video game when I was 6 years old, and video games has been a huge part of my life ever since. Everything is getting digitized. I do not think it's necessarily a bad thing. People tends to blame media and the digital world for every issue there is : School shootings, pornography etc etc. I think blaming stuff like video games, social media, etc is WRONG. Is the bullied kid really bullied due to social media? Is the school shooter really shooting other students due to video games?
People need to remember that school shootings happened also before video games, and there is a fair chance that you at some point also bullied your fellow student, before the internet was a reality. People needs to stop finding excuses for something to blame, to make sense of things.
The globalization and the raise of the social media has done great things:
You can now instantly write to people, who are at the other side of earth. You can learn religious and cultural differences, without traveling across the world.
It's a very informative era, which has its goods and bads.
When I'm reading some of the previous comments, it feels like people are so afraid of change. Why not embrace the "new" world with open arms? How important is it really, that a teenager can do mental arithmetics when he has a calculator on his phone?
My personal experiences tells me that maybe it's wrong to say to your kid "Go out and play". He might reply "With who?". Most of his friends properly plays video games together online. Another thing could be, is that the kid doesn't have many friends IRL (In real life), but has 5 friends online he enjoys spending time with. Friendship is a strange thing. You don't have to meet your friend in real life, in order to be friends IMHO.