Just a note to say I have a lot of respect for the fellow at my dealer who has taken care of me for several purchases. The particular dealer doesn't give much on pricing—and I am a small business owner so I know that while the dealer may pay 60% of retail for the product, you cannot just assume he's got 40% "profit". He has overhead and the right to earn some net profit at the end of the day.
I don't know how audio dealers pay their sales folks, but I assume some of the 40% may go to some type of commission vs. straight salary for the sales rep. I know that sales guy and he's got a couple kids and wife and mortgage, he drives an old car. He's hardly rolling in dough.
The owner of the shop probably is doing just fine, but like any business there are good and bad years and I have no idea what he invested originally to get things going. Being a business owner isn't all about living the high life. Most business owner's work their asses off, or once did, while risking everything. I respect that so I will pay what I consider fair, depending on how bad I want something. Of course, saving $$ whenever I can also important to me. I don't want to outlive my $$ and end up depending on the gov't.
That said, this is a crazy expensive hobby! My wife reminds me... regularly!