You rather misunderstand my points (and perhaps I do yours as well). As to "proving" it, that's not really possible for one person (listener) to do. I could convince myself that it is true for me, but that is kind of my point. A careful listener with good hearing and discrimination (and in my experience this unfortunately applies to few "audiophiles", even reviewers) can learn a lot about his own preferences, which is all that matters when choosing his own components. However, this doesn't "prove" anything in a more general sense, or in the sense of "evidence" as verified by experimentation and appropriate analysis.
I would like to read about more investigation into why 2 amplifiers (for instance) which measure similarly in whatever ways one deems relevant often still sound different, and what measurements might better explain this.