Guys...I don't know what to say; except that I suppose, I'm an audiophile enigma.
I've literally loved music and gear, since I was like 6; had my own "stereos", since I was like 10. Spent $800 on the the first, sub-$1k CD player...in 1985, at 17; and so it went.
I read ALL the mags; Stereo Review, when I was like 15. Stereophile, Absolute Sound, etc. I always
lusted, after the big ticket items; but I could only read about them. For years, I did the best I could, with what I could; but I was firmly mired in mid-fi.
About 10 years ago...I started investing more (...and more) money, into my system. Naturally...given the circumstances; I was like a kid in a candy store. How to decide, between brands...that to that point, I'd only read about in magazines; brands like ARC, BAT, C-J, etc. I mean...with rare exception, did anything I every try; sound like "crap". They all had their strengths and minuses. And it's hard for me, to decide on a "sound"...because maybe unlike some; I don't listen to one Genre of music. And I don't mean two Genres, like Orchestral and Chamber Classical. I listen to everything from delicate, superbly-recorded...audiophile fodder; to new...deliberately lo-fi, Garage, Indie, etc...and EVERYTHING in between!
So I get it...I'm hard to give advice to, because the truth is;
I'm not even sure, what I'm looking for or suits me. Do I like the Luxman IA? Yes. Do I like the ARC VT-50? Yes. Do I like the C-J combo? Duh. But...one does this well, while the other does that well; while one costs
this...and the other costs
that.
Like I just told someone: if you use audiophile as a verb...like drinking; as in you'd say "man...he drank hard, for 10 years". Well...I "audiophiled"
hard, for about 10 years lol
I've taken my share of criticism...because I guess people assume, I'm walking into a B&M; handing over my Amex, and just paying sticker price. And then losing 50% of that value, when I decide to flip/sell. Trust me...that's NOT the case; after my initial investment, of course...which I could get back, anytime I wanted, if I liquidated. I'd say if I
had to add it all up; I'd actually be in the Black a few dollars
I think some of the criticism (not here...but elsewhere); is a certain "jealously". People wish,
they could flip gear...and always be trying something new (they can...trust me; I'm middle-class, but hardly rich); or...they get upset, because people come to me for advice...like I'm an "expert". I don't purport myself to be; but I
will say this: IMO...being an "expert", to the extent that you can in this hobby, comes from trying gear! I mean...no offense; but what kind of opinion, can a guy who's owned the same kit...for 10 years, really offer? I mean, what he heard at a trade show, maybe.
So not poor me; I give as good as I get...better even

And I have a lot of hobbies...Audio, Cigars, Wine, Whisky, etc; that some might consider high-falutin', and "snobby"...but I don't see them that way. So I like to joke around, with the guys...maybe let an expletive or 2 fly; and really mix it up, about this hobby we supposedly love.
But IDK;
sometimes, it seems
some of you either a) only want to push your own agenda, or b) push a financial interest.
I don't have either; I LIKE AUDIO! I like to TALK about audio! And yes, I have decisions...that are sometimes, tough for me to make; and I'll seek advice. But JC...some of you guys, sound like my wife or mother (both women, BTW!). They'll say "why do you ask my advice, when you're not going to take it"? Seriously...that sounds like the dumbest thing, I've ever heard.
Advice is
welcome...especially when I've asked for it; but ultimately...after I've taken in, what others have to say and filtered it through my own decision-making process, gut feeling, or what-have-you. It's MY decision to make, for myself! Is that
really, so hard to understand? Don't you guys do that?
You're buying a new car. You read reviews, Consumer Report;
talk to people...test drive. But then...do you just buy, what
others say is best; or do you take all that information, wrap it in with your own...and choose for yourself. My goodness...I hope that's a rhetorical question.
And again...worst of all; even though I
guess hearts were in the right place. I asked about one thing...or within certain parameters, and all I got was any but; and/or "p*ss off...you never listen anyway". And then
I get criticized, for being the one...who's wrecked the "friendliest audio forum" moniker?
So, anyway...that's just my side of it. Thanks for reading.