Your graph above makes my point.
The ear doesn't do well with minor FR errors, but when the error covers a spectrum it can detect it pretty easily. Like my comments about the effects of tone controls even when set flat, this is well-known. We can see in the above graph an excellent example of the problem- if no tone controls the graph would be a straight line. Again, not conjecture- this is well-known. I see no point in presenting well-known data to someone uninterested and my lack of reaction isn't proof of its non-existence- but if you really want to know about this its not hard to find.
From a designer perspective, its a simple fact that any additional circuitry that isn't needed reduces bandwidth, raises the noise floor and adds distortion- even if the tone controls were to be perfectly flat this is still an issue. IOW it simply can't be as neutral; your graphs above show that pretty well.
So you either a) didn't read the link b) don't understand the graph/data, the latter being more likely.
The graph was posited to show that a device with tone controls can still have very wide bandwidth (not that human ears care, nor can said ears
demonstrate any ability to hear said ultra wide bandwidth, think audiophile ears vs Redbook).
The FR with tiny, inaudible (real, demonstrable, non-imaginary) deviation of 0.1db or less, is amp output into a simulated load. Demonstrating why a very low output impedance is important to signal spectral fidelity. It has approximately zero to do with tone controls in circuit. Please read link, it's clearly spelled out by JA!!
Your years of working on equipment is both irrelevant and zero proof that competently engineered (aka non-audiophile fashion "designer") tone controls are "bad". It's all Red Herring, because no one is arguing that "bad" examples of tone controls that may/may not have been found on old/poorly designed equipment, aren't bad. They are.
But gross engineering incompetence is not a reason to avoid tone controls altogether. It's a reason to avoid incompetent engineering, period. No shortage of that in audio fashion/puritan designer circles, agreed.
cheers,
AJ