I partially agree. Allow me to explain - It is true that the human ear cannot localize sounds <80Hz, some say even up to 100Hz. However, you can feel the pressure and subs positioning will affect how the bass pressure is felt. For example, subs that are close to the mains provide what I find is the most accurate and uniform pressure for low frequencies, however, subs in close proximity to mains is, in most situations a mess since you exacerbate room modes with added low frequency drivers next to your mains. So there's a compromise.
WRT sub placement asymmetrically in the room - I agree, but you can't place them simply anywhere in the room. And placement matters not only in width or length but in the height of the sub. This takes significant time and measurements (+ ears to fine tune) IME but yields amazing results when integrated well.
WRT your 3 approaches and DBA - DSP and bass traps' effectiveness depends on room size and personal preference. For example a Distributed Bass Array would not be practical in a small room, say 10' x 12' since A) You may encounter a lack of free space for placement B) While there are benefits of smoothing out room modes there are usually added reverberations which a small room untreated simply cannot manage. DSP, employed carefully and sparingly can be a wonderful tool. And every and any room will benefit from room treatment including bass traps.
The answer is use them all: multiple subs + DSP + room treatment used judiciously and in concert is the best way to yield accurate, articulate and even bass. BTW, I use all 3