Well, the $10k budget was for "electronics", which was intended to include sources, amps, preamps, streamers, cables, power, and so on - everything but the speakers. The Oppo 205 is actually $1300, which seemed like a reasonable percentage of a max budget. Plus, it has dual ES9038Pro Sabre DACs, which can't be a completely awful starting point. At some point I'd like to try high res streaming via a networked DAC, but at the moment I have no media of higher resolution than 16/44.1 CD, so let's just say that I have to start somewhere, and may elect to upgrade further in the future. If you have in mind a source that meets your quality requirements and can play both CD and 4K BluRay video (yes, a high quality video player is a requirement here, and I don't think I can afford both that and a high end CD source), I'm interested.
I'm actually originally from Lake St Louis, and I think I know of the custom installer you're referencing (by website; never visited in person). Could be an option if we make a trip to see the family soon. Kansas City is surprisingly down to just one store that carries higher end in a retail setting, and that's where I heard the GoldenEar (Triton 1) and B&W. They carry Mac, Parasound, and Anthem. We've heard the Salons locally, powered by the same Levinson integrated you mentioned, and it sounded quite good. So the more "popular" names I can find without too much trouble. The more esoteric brands popular on this forum are where the online leap of faith is required.