I went to Can Jam at RMAF a few years ago and compared numerous headphones, including some that have what you're looking for. I bought the PSB M4U 2, but I believe headphone preference is almost more subjective than speaker preference, partly because all of our ears are shaped so differently. What I find comfortable to wear, you may hate. And vice versa.
I also agree with Mike that the latest Bose active model was pretty good, as was one of the new Beats models (can't remember which one). But given how long it's been (two years) since I went to Can Jam, I'd try Inner Fidelity, Head Fi and other enthusiast sites for recommendations on the latest and greatest.
If you can go to a local headphone get-together (Head Fi.org has info on many), I would highly recommend it. I've been to those (yes, nerd alert), and everyone is very generous with their cans, amps and time. Can Jam would be even better, but that usually involves a longer trip.
Or buy from the Cable Co, Music Direct or another site with a good return policy or a lending library. I tried shopping locally, but that doesn't work so well given the plethora of available choices. No one store can carry all the brands, or even all the products one brand (like Sennheiser) offers.