I don't really understand all the angst over ultra high priced gear. If someone wants to make it and someone wants to buy it, doesn't impact me and its not my business. I've heard some of the half million dollar speakers and $300k dacs, etc., and I think they sound great. But the delta in sound quality between my system and the ultra gear is very small relative to the delta in price, so I'm happy. It also seems that there are more choices in high quality, lower cost gear than ever before. Its not like the ultra gear is replacing lower cost offerings. I was at the Toronto show recently. Saw a handful of near million dollar rooms, but many more filled with relatively affordable gear that , to my ears, was quite impressive. And the Canadian dealers were great to visit with-living up to the Canadian reputation for friendliness. I'm betting the same will be true of CAF.
I've not experienced dealers or reviewers insisting that I have to pay what a house costs to get a good system, but if I did, I can choose as I see fit. Even the big magazines devote considerable effort to covering lower cost gear. They deserve a lot of criticism for how conflicts of interest are treated-as do lots of YouTubers-but its a bum rap to suggest they only cover ultra priced gear.
I also understand, sort of, that there is an undercurrent between certain dealers on some of the forums. If some participants accept undisclosed goodies as a quid pro quo for favorable posts, that's reprehensible in my book and I hope its exposed and names are called. A bigger problem for me is the incivility often found on forums. Keyboard courage can be tempting to us all but casually referring to someone as an "idiot" or a "nitwit" says much more about the accuser than the target. None of us are perfect-I'm certainly not-but this should be easily solved by the application of basic manners. That stuff destroys reasonable discussion and I wish forum moderators had zero tolerance for it, but the folks who own the forums have every right to run them as they see fit-participation is not mandatory. Even the ASR types, who can be very difficult, are just people who have a different opinion about audio. Doesn't make them evil.
Of what has been discussed, I do lament the disappearance of brick and mortar stores. Makes it tough for those of us who live in audio deserts and makes the shows really important for many of us. Looking forward to CAF and the chance to listen to great gear and visit people who have climbed down the same rabbit whole as me.
Just my thoughts.