Don't Touch My Records! Has this ever happened w/ your wife or S.O. ?

Odyssey

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Not that my wife listens to records anymore, but to quote the wife character in the video "It's just music" resonates with me.

Almost three decades ago when we first got together she would leave the LP's strewn out on the floor and refuse to use the Discwasher to clean them before playing them.

Does this video bring back memories for any of you guys?
 
Yep. It brings back memories. I thought he was an ass when I first saw the movie, and he still comes across as an ass.
 
I remember dating a young woman many years ago that kept her LP's loose, outside of their inner sleeves and jackets. Her stereo rack was constructed of six concrete blocks standing on end and 2" X 12" boards about six feet long stacked three shelves high. Her sound system was a Panasonic receiver, two small bookshelf speakers, and a cheap automatic Panasonic turntable. She had a dozen or more LP's stacked against each other on the carpet leaning against the lowest concrete block. She asked if I'd like to hear some music and picked up the stack of records and started shuffling through them like a deck of cards, tossing the ones she wasn't interested in on the carpet and on top of each other.. I was shocked but kept silent. When she finally arrived at an LP she wanted to hear, she placed it on her automatic turntable and when the tone arm hit the record it sounded like we were listening to sandpaper, no, dirty used sandpaper. Yes, I could hear the music in there somewhere but the noise, pops, ticks, and elevated background racket was horrendous. She was snapping her fingers and bobbing hear head to the beat and seemed to be enjoying it. It was all I could do to keep from laughing out loud. Since this was my first visit to her home with hopes of more than just some music and talk, I ignored the travesty of her record handling habits. What's a man to do under those circumstances? The sight of those records out of their jackets and sleeves on the floor leaning against a concrete block left a permanent imprinted picture in my brain. I remember that evening like it was yesterday and fortunately the torture of my hearing paid dividends. :)

Like the video above showed, for this young woman it was about the music. The rest of it just didn't seem to bother her at all.
 
I have all my disks arranged alphabetically by a few genres: Classical, Rock, Jazz, Gregorian chants (yeah, really) Gilbert and Sullivan, PDQ Bach and musical comedy, and Broadway.

When I remove disks from my shelves, I have bright yellow card stock that I insert in their places on the shelf that stick out a bit more than the disks so they are easily seen. It's low tech but works perfectly. I have about 15 or 20 of those yellow oak-tag cards.

Even if I take out ten disks for the multi-disk player for a party, I can easily see exactly where they go when they get put back on the shelf.
 
I remember dating a young woman many years ago that kept her LP's loose, outside of their inner sleeves and jackets. Her stereo rack was constructed of six concrete blocks standing on end and 2" X 12" boards about six feet long stack three shelves high. Her sound system was a Panasonic receiver, two small bookshelf speakers, and a cheap automatic Panasonic turntable. She had a dozen or more LP's stacked against each other on the carpet leaning against the lowest concrete block. She asked if I'd like to hear some music and picked up the stack of records and started shuffling through them like a deck of cards, tossing the ones she wasn't interested in on the carpet and on top of each other.. I was shocked but kept silent. When she finally arrived at an LP she wanted to hear, she placed it on her automatic turntable and when the tone arm hit the record it sounded like we were listening to sandpaper, no, dirty used sandpaper. Yes, I could hear the music in there somewhere but the noise, pops, ticks, and elevated background racket was horrendous. She was snapping her fingers and bobbing hear head to the beat and seemed to be enjoying it. It was all I could do to keep from laughing out loud. Since this was my first visit to her home with hopes of more than just some music and talk, I ignored the travesty of her record handling habits. What's a man to do under those circumstances? The sight of those records out of their jackets and sleeves on the floor leaning against a concrete block left a permanent imprinted picture in my brain. I remember that evening like it was yesterday and fortunately the torture of my hearing paid dividends. :)

Like the video above showed, for this young woman it was about the music. The rest of it just didn't seem to bother her at all.


It just goes to show ya the nonsense we will put up with in order to get laid-at least when we were young and dating. :)
 
I know a guy who visited a local audio store to hear a piece of equipment. The owner of the store kept his records piled on the floor, often without sleeves just lying on the album covers. My friend fled in fear. He couldn't handle that level of record care.
 
My response is not directed at any single post but if you worry more about your records or your gear than your wife or significant others feelings, you deserve to live and die alone with your organized stuff.
 
My response is not directed at any single post but if you worry more about your records or your gear than your wife or significant others feelings, you deserve to live and die alone with your organized stuff.

Go dump out her purse, jewelry drawer and makeup area....see what reaction you get.
 
My response is not directed at any single post but if you worry more about your records or your gear than your wife or significant others feelings, you deserve to live and die alone with your organized stuff.

Pretty much agree. If your LP's are more important than your wife then its time to get a divorce and then see what you end up with after the divorce hearing. You could be shocked. You could end up alone in a little appt with your equipment and LP's. If someone needs a good atty let me know. :D
 
Ha--yep been there

Sorta reminds one of the old adage

Lock your Dog and your Wife in the car boot over night

in the morning see who's pleased to see you:D!!

Bruce
 
Reminds me of my 86 year old neighbor. He told me he's been married 5 times and repeatedly proclaims "never again!" Oddly, he's also the happiest guy I know.
 
The scene from this clip is from the movie Diner which came out in 1982 or so. I was in my early 20's when this movie was first screened. This before wife and with equipment rack. Post marriage delete the rack and speakers with little ones.

In any event I was hoping to spark a discussion about the differences between the sexes. My point is not whether the newlywed husband in this movie is being mean to his wife. He doesn't know how to express to her how important music is to him and how it transports him.

I have some of the same struggle today. She is jealous of the music room. I invite her in but she is good for maybe 20-30 minutes. If she gets emotionally engaged she starts singing instead of listening!

I try to point out to her the nuances of the sound staging and imaging in vain. She could care less and thinks I'm nuts. Maybe she's right. :huh:
 
The scene from this clip is from the movie Diner which came out in 1982 or so. I was in my early 20's when this movie was first screened. This before wife and with equipment rack. Post marriage delete the rack and speakers with little ones.

In any event I was hoping to spark a discussion about the differences between the sexes. My point is not whether the newlywed husband in this movie is being mean to his wife. He doesn't know how to express to her how important music is to him and how it transports him.

I have some of the same struggle today. She is jealous of the music room. I invite her in but she is good for maybe 20-30 minutes. If she gets emotionally engaged she starts singing instead of listening!

I try to point out to her the nuances of the sound staging and imaging in vain. She could care less and thinks I'm nuts. Maybe she's right. :huh:

Singing is good. I think it's better than listening.
 
OMG, I feel sorry for the hotty's abuse. Give the darling a tissue.

I gave The Lady the job to electronically catalogue which she happily agreed to do, someday never. Until then, she knows the procedure to mute, lift and bank the tonearm if I can't get to it. :flowers2:
 
The scene from this clip is from the movie Diner which came out in 1982 or so. I was in my early 20's when this movie was first screened. This before wife and with equipment rack. Post marriage delete the rack and speakers with little ones.

In any event I was hoping to spark a discussion about the differences between the sexes. My point is not whether the newlywed husband in this movie is being mean to his wife. He doesn't know how to express to her how important music is to him and how it transports him.

I have some of the same struggle today. She is jealous of the music room. I invite her in but she is good for maybe 20-30 minutes. If she gets emotionally engaged she starts singing instead of listening!

I try to point out to her the nuances of the sound staging and imaging in vain. She could care less and thinks I'm nuts. Maybe she's right. :huh:


The two other things I find women do during listening, and I use that term loosely for them, are talking during the music and wanting the volume to be reduced to the level of Background/Elevator music.
 
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