No disrespect intended, but weren't you the one talking as if someone was jealous because of what some can afford, while others can't?
Guys, I've been watching and reading for a while; because things got a little heated...and the last thing I need right now, is more trouble
But let me chime-in...because I think we're all on the same page, ideology-wise; and there's just some semantics going around.
When I echoed Mark's sentiments; about "jealousy", and being able to "afford" to swap...I tried to put a slightly different spin on it. However...I think it got lost.
One...I think Mark and I, both used "jealousy" (or I thought "envy" was a little softer); more
in lieu of an explanation. We both opined...why would anyone get so worked-up, if it
weren't...etc, etc. Two...there's a difference between being able to "pay", and being able to "afford"; and sometimes...often times...that difference, is simply a matter of priority.
Until recently, I was a DINK...with a wife who didn't begrudge me my toys. Now I'm a SINK, and at 47 (next week)...I won't be putting any little-ones through college; not in this lifetime.
Also...and maybe we (the swappers), should have been clear: I can't speak for everyone...but I buy
used. Oh hell no...I couldn't swap like this, paying MSRP minus some nominal discount. You'd lose your shirts, and your pants! That's one of the reasons I buy used!
Don't get me wrong...I've bought quite a few things new as well; and when I feel ready to settle down, I'll be the first one to crack that seal. In the meantime...it's been a helluva ride.
Look...maybe it also comes from, your indoctrination to the hobby. Here's mine: I was an audiophile, at heart...from the time I was like 11! I'd read the catalogs and magazines...and look at shiny, mega-buck gear; and dream and lust. And as an adult, I always had a good bang-for-the-buck, mid-fi system; but it was only like 10 years ago...that I allowed myself to spend some serious dollars.
Well...I'm like a fat kid, finally let loose in the candy shoppe. What to try...the Audio Research I've always wanted...the Belles, those in the know like so much; Conrad-Johnson, the venerable Champagne-colored favorite? (see what I did there...lol). I know: why...not...try...them...ALL!
I know someone who broached the subject...I think it was Mike; was asking inquisitively...and not making an accusation. But nothing steams me more, than someone who tries to use my gear-swapping...as evidence I don't love music, as much as the guy who sits on his amp for 10 years.
I'll compare listening habits, to anyone's; and like my chances
