Most of my life I could not afford reference level components. Today the cost of reference keeps moving so its a stretch for me in many cases, though I do recognize the privilege of having accumulated a little bit of wealth. Then again, I’m now 62, in my 30’s and early 40’s I didn’t have a system. The system I assembled in my youth: ARC, Great American Sound, Nackamichi, Techniques turntable, and home-made speakers bought from a local guy who built ‘em in his garage lasted a decade or so then parts began to fail and I had other things to attend to. Today, however, there are tremendous bargains if you seek them out—and if you’re not lured by the siren call of the latest, greatest, uber-spanky gear.
Can you dim the lights, pour yourself an adult beverage, play music you like, and relax? I often say I can be more emotionally connected to my car radio playing an old memory than my spanky system. Its not about the gear, but a love for music. The gear part is fun, but if I had to sell it all I know I could assemble a rig for $10k and still enjoy myself.