The real issue comes down to neophytes versus long term audiophiles. The Objectivists tend to quote data and "results" from "blind listening" using normal off the street people and/or mostly neophytes. However, audiophiles have learned from listening to high end gear over some time, most of us over a lifetime, and very much support the Subjectivists type of listening.
Learning to listen does take time and does take patience. To know what is truly different in the music, in the gear, etc., is not an ability that people are born with (usually). Just like playing an instrument, or painting a gorgeous picture as examples, usually takes time, a lifetime, to be very good at it.
Listening and understanding Subjective listening does indeed take time and understanding. This is where the Objectivists get it wrong. This is where many forums get it wrong. The forum for my favorite speakers seems to fall on the Objectivists side. It is not that they are wrong it is that they do not trust their ears as much as the numbers coming out of tests. And honestly, this comes straight from the top. Alan Shaw is very much an Objectivists. However, he still makes tremendous speakers. Maybe being an Objectivists works when manufacturing, but over the course of a lifetime Subjectivists works better for many of us. It allows us to find the diamond in the roof that is truly better, either with or without the supporting number (T+A DAC with high level DSD

as an example, or the Wyred 4 Sound STP-SE Stage 2 preamp as another example).
Even though I have decided that tubes are not for me, I would say tube lovers understand this very well.